M is a very funny aspect of human life - everyone wants it, likes it but its difficult to deal with it.
I feel like I never really signed up to a lot of things that I have to had deal with in very early years of life and in the beginning of my career. There is nothing that I have done wrong till date - I should be fearless. but the systems that I am associated with and the problems that I have dealt with, have made me more irritable at times than strong. Do I think many people in my life understand this? No. Do I expect that they should? well some of them I do.
One of my friend had said to me once, 99% of the time in life, you are focused on self. I am not sure if its really that much, but the point is its true for everyone and the number is most likely on the higher side. And if we do the maths, one spends this 1% (or higher) of time thinking about soo many people in life, who you have to love and care. So if one of them is in a bad phase or in a difficult time, its rather ambitious to expect that other significant people will in his or her life come to the rescue, think about it many times, or even purposefully stop and help the entire time. You in question have to ask the right things, think about the right time and place to talk about it and figure it out.
Another of my friend uses this phrase a lot often - 'figure it out'
Music - super silent
Mood - restlessness
I feel like I never really signed up to a lot of things that I have to had deal with in very early years of life and in the beginning of my career. There is nothing that I have done wrong till date - I should be fearless. but the systems that I am associated with and the problems that I have dealt with, have made me more irritable at times than strong. Do I think many people in my life understand this? No. Do I expect that they should? well some of them I do.
One of my friend had said to me once, 99% of the time in life, you are focused on self. I am not sure if its really that much, but the point is its true for everyone and the number is most likely on the higher side. And if we do the maths, one spends this 1% (or higher) of time thinking about soo many people in life, who you have to love and care. So if one of them is in a bad phase or in a difficult time, its rather ambitious to expect that other significant people will in his or her life come to the rescue, think about it many times, or even purposefully stop and help the entire time. You in question have to ask the right things, think about the right time and place to talk about it and figure it out.
Another of my friend uses this phrase a lot often - 'figure it out'
Music - super silent
Mood - restlessness
